Interview with Mary Lou Quinlan, author of The God Box
This last week, I was given the opportunity to speak to Mary Lou Quinlan, author of the book The God Box, releasing this week in print and e-book nationally.
Mary Lou also performs a one-woman show about the story that drove her to write, to perform and to even delve into the world of app development for this single inspiration that began long ago when Mary's mother, Mary Finlayson, picked up a pen, found a small piece of paper and wrote her first prayer to begin her own unique "God Box."
But, this last week wasn't exactly the first time I've talked to Mary Lou about this project. Last Fall, I received an email from my dear friend Beth informing me that a woman she knew was putting together a book based on her mother's prayers and that this woman, Mary Lou Quinlan, was gathering a group of people who she could bounce her ideas off and who could possibly help move this project from the depths of her heart onto real paper and ink and even beyond. Would I come and hear Mary Lou's story?
Prayer to God, to the Lord, is a dear subject for me, as close to my heart as anything in my life, and the thought of going to New York City where someone there in that big city of skyscrapers, hustling and bustling business people and long sidewalks of cement cared about prayer in whatever way that meant, I needed to know more. Yes, I would go.
Travelling via Amtrak and then cab, I arrived at Mary Lou's address and found a delightful host welcoming me into her lovely NYC loft, a home decorated in style and grace with the perfect combination of turquoise and copper in her collection of home decor. The doorbell continued to sound as the room filled with bloggers, writers, marketers, designers and assistants along with others I am sure I have forgotten. Ears were ready to hear the story Mary Lou stood and shared with us, the story of her mother and her prayers.
Growing up, Mary Lou would often hear her mother say, "I'll put you in my God Box" when she wanted to encourage someone and to let them know they were thought of and cared about. But, her mother didn't stop with words. She would take a small piece of paper, yellow or white or blue or whatever, blank or written on, and find a space to write a prayer and a date. Sometimes, she would go back and edit the prayer. Most importantly, she filled box after box, after box, and stored those dated prayers in various containers tucked high in her closet where someone someday, like her children, like Mary Lou, would find them and be blessed all over again.
After her mother's death, Mary Lou did find those boxes. As she pulled out prayer after prayer, Mary Lou realized she was holding a eloquently collected time capsule of her mother's love and a history of her family and her life. Mary Lou decided to share this development in her life in a magazine article in Real Simple. The response was so positive, Mary Lou knew she needed to do more, take it further, share with more people.
Thus, The God Box came into being . . . . a book about Mary Finlayson who shared her innermost thoughts scrap by scrap, timestamped so that the journey could once again be followed by those who knew her best. In the box, Mary Lou shares her mother's prayers and then fills in the details behind each customized piece of paper as she shares a riveting, poignant tale of the power of family and the permanence of love. Vivid and colorful images in the book show her mother's prayers written in so many different ways along with pictures of Mary Lou's family as she was growing up.
This book is a delightful read and {SPOILER ALERT} you will need tissues. In our interview last week, I asked Mary Lou about the show and how it was coming and had anything changed since she had begun telling the story to an audience.
"It's like living with Mom. . . . I have a co-developer and she will say to me, 'Wait, tell me what you are seeing right now.' It's becoming more specific and deeper, more interactive . . . . like I am engaging the audience more even without having them talk."
Another person on the call for the interview asked how Mary Lou is spreading the word about the performance and the book. The author answered that she starts with a blank slate, determines who she knows where and starts from there.
Though Mary Lou says she isn't a spiritual guru herself, she has been inspired by her mother's "God Boxes" to help others understand the power of releasing one's worries and the process of healing through writing down one's passions and anxieties. It's also a beautiful way to let others know they have been remembered too. She is open to talking to or reaching any group with her story (Christian, Jewish, or anyone who appreciates the value of prayer).
Mary Lou is also planning to have a related iPhone app ready by Mother's Day. This app will allow you to do digitally what you can also do at home which is to store your prayers in a chronological fashion. The benefit of the app is that in today's digital world, you can even send an email telling someone they are in YOUR "God Box."
Read more below (and/or on the website):
WHAT IS THE GOD BOX?
After her mother Mary Finlayson dies, her daughter uncovers 10 of her God boxes spanning over 20 years of her life. The boxes are stuffed with tiny notes written by Mary, asking and praying for everything from the right flooring for her daughter’s new home to a cure for her own blood cancer. Mary’s petitions are presented with love and without expectation. Note by note, author Mary Lou Quinlan unearths insights into her mother’s compassion, faith, and perseverance, and revelations of her innermost thoughts—nostalgic, surprising, and even a bit shocking. And through the journey, the author discovers her own more empathetic, more engaged self—the woman her mother had believed in all along.
Mary Lou has transitioned from successful marketing CEO to actor, taking audiences on a nostalgic and emotional journey back to her past.
Tales to Play celebrates April 12: Drop Everything and Read Day.
At Toy Fair 2012, I had the privilege of viewing the darling new games by Tales to Play which are inspired by classic children's books. I was sent the game The Berenstain Bears™ Learn to Share™ Game for review and it's so cute with characters from the popular series and a playset that could be used with or without the game.
In The Berenstain Bears™ Learn to Share™ Game, Mama, Papa, Brother and Sister Bear are brought to life as kids race around the board. Drop the die down the tree house slide to roll, move your bear or draw a card that will tell you about a nice behavior or one that could cause some trouble. Kids love the fun role play and trying to be the first to reach Mama and Papa Bear! For ages 4 and up.
Tales to Play have also created games based on Mother Goose, The Little Engine That Could™ and Where the Wild Things Are™.
Drop Everything And Read (DEAR) Day is coming up April 12. It’s a day set aside in honor of author Beverly Cleary’s birthday as a day to promote reading for youngsters. Tales to Play line is a line of games that bring to life classic children’s books. Currently, there's no Beverly Cleary title in the Tales to Play line, but they do have Where the Wild Things Are, The Little Engine That Could, the Berenstain Bears and Mother Goose. And by this fall, they plan to add Clifford the Big Red Dog. Tales to Play is promoting DEAR Day – honoring a well-loved children’s author and asking families to consider using Tales to Play games to encourage reading and a love of books in their households.
Mystery Book "Come Home" by Lisa Scottoline — Coming Out Tuesday in Print & CD April 10.
I don't even have to listen to my new mystery book CD Set "Come Home" by Lisa Scottoline to know it will be good. I wanted to get this post up before the April 10th release but I am actually saving the book itself as a special treat for a long ride I need to make in about two weeks.
You may ask – how do I know it will be good? What do I know about Lisa Scottoline? I know that I have loved every one of her books since I read her first novel "Everywhere that Mary Went." Over the year, my sister and I have regularly sought out Lisa at local book signings so we could exchange her works for birthdays and Christmases as a special surprise. At least once, I read my gift before wrapping it so I wouldn't have to wait.
{OR, order on Amazon Here: Come Home}
Lisa also lives in the Philadelphia suburbia not too far from me and she uses this entire area to build her rich and suspenseful mysteries. So, I get to imagine stories playing out in familiar territory and at the same time get wrapped up in all the multi-layered, tension filled-details Lisa adds that keep you reading or listening into the wee hours. I like the CDs for some of the long car trips I make.
Here's a synopsis of this new book from Lisa's website:
Jill Farrow is a typical suburban mom, who has finally gotten her and her daughter's life back on track after a divorce. She is about to remarry a great guy, her job as a pediatrician fulfills her, though it is stressful, and her daughter Megan is a happily over-scheduled thirteen-year-old, juggling homework and swim team.
Jill's life is turned upside-down when her ex-stepdaughter, Abby, shows up on their doorstep late one night and delivers shocking news — Jill's ex-husband is dead. Abby insists that he was murdered and pleads with Jill to help find his killer. Jill reluctantly agrees to make a few inquiries, and discovers that things don't add up. As she digs deeper, her actions threaten to rip apart her new family, destroy their hard-earned happiness, and even endanger her own life. Yet, Jill can't turn her back on a child she loves and once called her own. COME HOME reads with the break-neck pace of a thriller, but also explores the definition of motherhood. It asks the questions: Do you ever stop being a mother? Can you ever have an ex-child? What are the limits and love of family?
However you decide to absorb this book, I know it will be awesome!
About Lisa Scottoline:
Lisa Scottoline graduated magna cum laude in three years from the University of Pennsylvania, in 1976. Her B.A. degree was in English with a concentration in the Contemporary American Novel, and she was taught by professors such as National Book Award Winner Philip Roth. Lisa then graduated cum laude from the University of Pennsylvania Law School in 1981, where she served as an Associate Editor, University of Pennsylvania Law Review. Lisa Scottoline graduated magna cum laude in three years from the University of Pennsylvania, in 1976. Her B.A. degree was in English with a concentration in the Contemporary American Novel, and she was taught by professors such as National Book Award Winner Philip Roth. Lisa then graduated cum laude from the University of Pennsylvania Law School in 1981, where she served as an Associate Editor, University of Pennsylvania Law Review.
Read more on her website.
Book Review: The Sneezy Wheezy Day by Sharon Cramer
Written by nurse and mom of three, Sharon Cramer, The Sneezy Wheezy Day, is the third installment of the Cougar Cub Tales – an award winning children’s picture book series that follows the adventures of a brother and sister cougar cub.
My kids are in their teens at this point and I can why a book about appreciating what your sibling can offer you really comes in handy.
Get the downloadable Kindle Edition ($.99) here: Cougar Cub Tales:The Sneezy Wheezy Day or order the hardback via Cramer's website Talking Bird Books or the Amazon link below.
In The Sneezy Wheezy Day, brother cub isn’t feeling well. As he and sister cub seek help for his cold, they encounter many well-intentioned forest friends who offer silly home remedies. One friend even tells brother cub, “Tickle your nose with the tail of a goose and do it before the next blue moon rise!” Although the recommendations help, the final remedy is a sibling’s love.
The painted pictures are luxurious and delightful to the eye!
Cramer wrote the first book in the series, Lost and Alone about sibling rivalry, when her youngest son was born 18 years ago. As a mom to two older sons at the time, Cramer says she felt like an expert on “brotherly love” already. The second installment in the series, I’m Just Like You addresses intolerance.
Oh, I think I need to get that one!
Cramer illustrates the Cougar Cub Tales books in watercolor, with each picture taking her between 18-24 hours to create. She chose cougar cubs because she wanted to create characters that spoke strongly of the Pacific Northwest, where she lives.
SHARON CRAMER is a Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist and avid competitive equestrian. She is also the author of, soon to be released, Marlo and the Monster, and is working on a new young adult series called The Cerulean Star. She lives in Spokane, Wash.
To learn more and hear audio of Cramer reading the books, please visit: www.talkingbirdbooks.com. You can also follow her on Twitter.
Lisa Scottoline's Best Friends, Occasional Enemies
Recently, I received a new audio release of one of my fave author Lisa Scottoline's books called "Best Friends, Occasional Enemies." This one is special because it is a memoir written by Lisa and her daughter. (See the book description below.)
When it comes to audiobooks, I LOVE them for my trip to North Carolina to visit my mom. I need that ongoing engagement to keep awake for 11 hours of driving. Riding around town, I find that I don't have enough time between stops to really get engaged and that was true when listening to this memoir, even though the alternating chapters between mother and daughter did lend to easier breaks between listening. I do think I would like to get the Kindle version of this book since it seemed like something I would enjoy more reading the print version to capture clever nuances and reread the funny references. I also saw a version on Amazon that you get free for trying Audible for their 30 days free trial.
But, overall, I love Lisa and I would definitely support anything she writes! She is da bomb! Great balance of wit and smarts!
From the New York Times bestselling writing team comes a hilarious new collection of essays that observe life from a mother/daughter perspective:
New York Times bestselling author Lisa Scottoline and her daughter Francesca Serritella are the best of friends—99.9% of the time. They’re number one on each other’s speed dial and they tell each other everything—well, almost everything. They share shoes and clothes—except one very special green jacket, which almost caused a catfight.
In other words, they’re just like every mother and daughter in the world. Best friends, and occasional enemies. Now they’re dishing about it all—their lives, their relationship, and their carb count.
Inspired by their weekly column, “Chick Wit” for The Philadelphia Inquirer, this book is one you’ll have to put down—just to stop laughing.














